Recognizing Addiction: Warning Signs & How to Help

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Recognizing Addiction: Warning Signs & How to Help

What Is Addiction, Really?

Addiction isn’t always obvious. It can sneak into everyday habits—until it’s hard to tell routine from real trouble. Addiction isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a long-term condition that can take over, even when it’s clearly causing problems. It’s not about being weak or lazy. Addiction actually rewires the brain, making it super hard to quit without help. Here’s a bit of neuroscience 101. Ever heard of your brain’s reward system? It’s basically like a cheerleader with a megaphone. Every time you do something it likes—like eating chocolate or getting a hug—it shouts, “That felt good! Do it again!” It’s how we learn what brings us pleasure. But with addiction, that cheerleader starts cheering for the wrong things, way too loudly, way to often, and it becomes harder to tell what’s actually good for you.

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The Truth About Boundaries: They’re Not About Changing Others 

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The Truth About Boundaries: They’re Not About Changing Others 

You are probably no stranger to the concept of “setting boundaries”. When we talk about boundaries in relationships, many people think or hope that boundaries will get someone else to change or act differently so that we can feel better.  

But boundaries aren’t about influencing or changing other people. They are about taking care of ourselves, mentally and emotionally, even if the others don’t or won’t change. Boundaries are really about choosing ourselves and what we are or aren’t willing to tolerate. 

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The Power of the Therapeutic Relationship

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The Power of the Therapeutic Relationship

Therapy is often described as a space to process emotions, build insight, and develop tools for managing life’s challenges. And while that’s absolutely true, one of the most powerful elements of therapy isn’t a technique or worksheet, but the relationship itself.

The connection between therapist and client, often called the therapeutic relationship or therapeutic alliance, plays a central role in the healing process. In fact, research consistently shows that the quality of this relationship is one of the strongest pillars of therapeutic success. When the connection feels solid and trusting, therapy tends to be more effective, regardless of the reason someone came to therapy in the first place.

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Don’t Believe Everything You Think

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Don’t Believe Everything You Think

Have you ever noticed the voices in your head—the ones that comment on everything you do? Some cheer you on, while others tear you down. In therapy, we often work with these inner voices. Therapy can be a powerful space to recognize the critical ones, strengthen the self-compassionate ones, and re-narrate your inner dialogue so that it is more supportive and empowering.

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Using the Gottman Method for Couples : How The Sound Relationship House Can Improve Relationships

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Using the Gottman Method for Couples : How The Sound Relationship House Can Improve Relationships

Relationships in general can be difficult, especially in a marriage relationship. We often think if we have love that will be enough. While it is essential, it is not always enough. In most marriages there is often conflict, miscommunication and emotional distance that can enter in even between partners that are devoted to each other. This is where the Gottman Method can be helpful to couples wanting to strengthen their marriage. The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to relationships that has helped thousands of couples build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

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