Breaking the Cycle of Negative Self-Talk

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Breaking the Cycle of Negative Self-Talk

We all have an inner voice — that little narrator that tends to make comments on our appearance, behaviors, skills, and overall worth. At times, that voice can be positive and uplifting. Other times, it can be judgmental and cruel.

This is what we consider to be negative self-talk. That critical inner conscious that focuses on what we are doing wrong rather than what we are doing right. It can cause guilt and shame. Although it may seem like “just thoughts,” it has the power to influence the way we act, feel, and connect to society.

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5 Therapy Myths Debunked

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5 Therapy Myths Debunked

“I don’t need therapy, I’m not broken.”

Sound familiar? As counselors, we hear this often, along with many other myths that may discourage individuals from taking that courageous first step toward starting their therapeutic journey.

The truth is, therapy is a strong tool for anyone seeking support, self-growth, rehabilitation, as well as to deepen their understanding of self. This can occur in various stages of one’s life, as the counselor’s goal is to meet the client where they are at.

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Recognizing Addiction: Warning Signs & How to Help

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Recognizing Addiction: Warning Signs & How to Help

What Is Addiction, Really?

Addiction isn’t always obvious. It can sneak into everyday habits—until it’s hard to tell routine from real trouble. Addiction isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a long-term condition that can take over, even when it’s clearly causing problems. It’s not about being weak or lazy. Addiction actually rewires the brain, making it super hard to quit without help. Here’s a bit of neuroscience 101. Ever heard of your brain’s reward system? It’s basically like a cheerleader with a megaphone. Every time you do something it likes—like eating chocolate or getting a hug—it shouts, “That felt good! Do it again!” It’s how we learn what brings us pleasure. But with addiction, that cheerleader starts cheering for the wrong things, way too loudly, way to often, and it becomes harder to tell what’s actually good for you.

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The Truth About Boundaries: They’re Not About Changing Others 

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The Truth About Boundaries: They’re Not About Changing Others 

You are probably no stranger to the concept of “setting boundaries”. When we talk about boundaries in relationships, many people think or hope that boundaries will get someone else to change or act differently so that we can feel better.  

But boundaries aren’t about influencing or changing other people. They are about taking care of ourselves, mentally and emotionally, even if the others don’t or won’t change. Boundaries are really about choosing ourselves and what we are or aren’t willing to tolerate. 

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