Danette Shelly

Life experience has taught me that healing is always possible—no matter where you are on your journey. You don’t have to face it alone. I invite you into a safe, supportive space where we can work together toward growth, healing, and mental well-being. My approach is eclectic and tailored to your unique needs and preferences, helping you make room for your thoughts and emotions—rather than fighting or avoiding them—and empower you to take meaningful actions guided by your values. This helps build resilience and adaptability, even during life’s most challenging times. If it’s meaningful to you, I’m happy to incorporate spirituality into our sessions, as it can often support the healing and growth process. I see clients at both the East Petersburg and downtown Lancaster locations, as well as online. 

My clinical focus is in substance use and addiction. Whether you are in recovery, currently struggling, or loving someone who is in addiction, there is help. No one dreams of addiction, but life’s hardships—trauma, anxiety, depression, family of origin dysfunction, or the challenges of neurodivergence like autism or ADHD—can lead us to seek relief in substances or compulsive behaviors. These may ease pain in the short term, but over time, they deepen it. Together, we can work to uncover the roots of pain and move toward meaningful change. 

Addictive behaviors affect teens too, and they face unique challenges. I'm here to support your child in building healthy boundaries around social media, substances, and relationships—empowering them to grow with confidence and make choices that support their well-being. 

Additionally, I hold deep respect for the emotional and practical challenges that come with pregnancy, postpartum depression, and the evolving journey of parenthood — including the transition to an empty nest. Motherhood is filled with highs and lows, and I'm here to support you through it all. You don’t have to lose yourself along the way. 

At the other end of the life spectrum, I also have extensive experience working with older adults and their families. Aging brings unique transitions, whether you're experiencing them firsthand or as a caregiver for a loved one. I'm here to provide compassionate guidance through these meaningful stages of life. 

I hold a Master of Arts in Addiction Counseling from Lancaster Bible College. I am a Licensed Associate Professional Counselor, currently working toward full licensure as a Licensed Professional Counselor. A Lancaster County native, I’ve always valued the area’s natural beauty and the strong sense of community. I’ve been married for 30 years and am the proud parent of two grown children. In my free time, I enjoy creative pursuits, reading, and spending meaningful time with family and friends.